I’m truly sorry you’re caught in such a painful situation with your son. It sounds as though your heart — filled with love and care — is being met with accusations and silence, and that’s simply not right. Family matters are often messy, and while your intentions might be good, misunderstandings can lead to hurt feelings.

I’m reaching out with a heavy heart and a mind full of memories. My oldest son, who once called me frequently and with whom I shared countless stories over long phone calls, now seems a stranger. He’s married,